fuckbuddy or girlfriend?

i was just about to start going out with this guy.lets call him 23.We were just about to get to know each other,then somehow news travelled fast.everybody founds out and all the stories about him fucking this bitch and that bitch and how he's an asshole a jerk a bastard came out and reached my ears.


instead of wanting to punch that guy,i actually felt sorry for him.just because he's a GUY,he didnt want any commitment from them,he just wanted to fuck them,he was called an asshole a jerk or a bastard.he wasnt in a relationship.that would be a different case.i did the same thing he did.i slept with a few guys but i never wanted any commitments from them.but no one called me a bastard or an asshole or even a slut.in my case most people actually thought,"okay ,there must be a reason why this girl wont have any commitment from those guys.maybe those guys are jerks."see?



In general,nowadays i've noticed that guys have to make their point clear whether they just wanna hangout with a girl with no strings attached or they do wanna get to know her better who knows it can lead to somewhere before anything happens.i find it fine as long as it is not misleading.if you just wanna fuck them,then DONT take them to lunch dinner or call them every fucking day or take them to meet your parents.okay dinner is fine because you dont wanna be hungry before the main session starts.if she's a fuckbuddy,then she's a fuckbuddy meaning she is for fucking only.not to help you find those skinny jeans for an upcoming dj event.if you do that,most girls(NOT ALL)somehow they will think that whatever is going on between both of you,it is LEADING to somewhere.


but if you asked me,i'd rather be called a bastard than a slut.